Yesterday was my first Mother’s Day so I couldn’t think of anything more important to talk about than the importance of healing our mother wound. Do you have one?
There hasn’t been one person I’ve come across either personally or professionally that didn’t have at least something to tease apart from their family of origin. Even if you had an amazing upbringing and have healthy, vibrant relationships with your parents today, it can still be so incredibly powerful to go back and look at what you’ve learned about love from each of your parents, especially your mother.
Our mothers are some of our earliest experiences of what it means to love and receive love and we all create stories and narratives around what we need to do to be loved, and more importantly, who we need to be.
In today’s episode, I talk about how we tease apart and heal our family of origin relationships even when we have a mother who isn’t capable of being in relationship with us.
Learning how to heal and come to a positive place with this is so incredibly necessary for believing you’re enough just as you are and living by your own values, beliefs, and the vision you have for yourself.
Some of the most transformational work I’ve done with my clients has been learning how to love and accept their parents for who they are even when we know so much more is possible for them.
It’s my belief that we’re all doing the best we can and are parents did the best they could. It doesn’t make what we didn’t get right, but it does help us come to a place of acceptance of what was and know not only what we needed then, but becoming the person we always needed and giving those things to ourselves now.
Tune in and let me know what comes up for you and if you want to do some transformational work on the relationship you have with yourself, the relationship you have with others, or the relationship you have with your family of origin, consider working with me 1:1. You can schedule a free call with me here and check out my 1:1 coaching package here!
One last thing! The Enoughness Challenge, hosted by my friend Makenna Pennycooke, starts today! To hear my best tools for cultivating enoughness at home plus 5 other areas, make sure you check that out here!
I’ll see you in a few days for a Transformational Thursday! <3 Have a stellar start to your week!